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I JUST REALIZED WE DON’T EVEN KNOW WHAT DINOSAURS SOUND LIKE! THEY COULD’VE BEEN SPEAKING FLUENT GERMAN FOR ALL WE KNOW
it’s too early for this late night tumblr shit
GUTEN MORGEN HERR PTERODACTYL
WIE GEHTS FRAU MASTADON
Oh my god neither of those are dinosaurs and there’s 145 million years separating them both, this post is a palaeontological disaster.
yessss this is what I live for
Me: I really want a cup of coffee, even though it’s 9:30 pm.
Me: I wonder how much caffeine is in my capsule coffee.
Me: *looks it up*
Me: 60 mg huh.
Me: *looks up how long caffeine stays in your system*
Me: 4-6 hours huh
Me: But my hair is still wet
Me: And I’m in the middle of this episode of sex and the city
Me: And I don’t have any classes tomorrow
Me: FUCK IT I DO WHAT I WANT *brews coffee*
I have a bunch of you and it means so much to me that you guys take the time to read and interact with my little ol’ Tumblr.
I’d like to return the favor and give you some personalized support and encouragement. I’ll hope to write ones based on other areas of life in the future, but today my encouragement comes in the form of my thoughts on your relationship status. :)
If you are in a happy relationship, yay!!! Me too! Is it not so unbelievably awesome? We are so lucky to have met people who make us feel good about ourselves and bring joy and light to our lives. You deserve to have these good things happen to you. Revel in and enjoy the love. And don’t forget to share your love and joy with the people around you - spend time with family and friends, volunteer for a cause you believe in, and smile and be polite to everyone you meet.
If you are in a rocky relationship: I know times are tough now and you are feeling confused or upset. Maybe you have a choice to make and you don’t know what the right ones is. Maybe you have a sense that something bad is happening and you’re scared for the future. Maybe you’re working really hard to improve your relationship, or maybe you’re figuring out how to bow out of it gracefully. Regardless of the situation: listen to your heart. You know what is best for you. You can trust yourself and your intuition. Although things seem scary or frustrating now, if you trust yourself and just try to be kind, compassionate, and firm, things will work out the way they are supposed to, and in time you will look back and see how things all came together to create the beautiful future that’s waiting for you.
If you’ve recently ended a relationship, whether mutual or by the hand of one of the other person, know that the pain and confusion you are feeling may be intense, or it may be surprisingly mild, but regardless, you are not alone. Centuries of art and music have been dedicated to the feeling you have right now. In time, the pain will pass, and you will remember the good things about the relationship as well as be grateful that ultimately it didn’t work out, because it prepared you for better things to come. Allow yourself to grieve, and take care of yourself. Be kind and patient with your ex, and cut off all contact if you can, at least for a while. That will allow everyone to heal more easily.
If you’ve been single for a while, and you’re not sure if you’ll ever find love, and you feel unwanted or alone, please just know that loneliness is a universal human emotion and that you are a beautiful and lovable person. You deserve someone who will treat you well and shower you with affection. Sometimes the timing just isn’t right, and you would do well to focus on improving other areas of your life (self-improvement, friends, work, etc.). Sometimes the relationship thing needs a little push - branch out in your social circles, join new clubs or activities, or sign up for online dating websites (paid ones are better, honestly). Don’t lose hope, and don’t get down on yourself if you don’t have what you want right now. Treat yourself to dates, tell yourself the things you want to hear, talk about yourself like you’d want someone you loved to talk about you. And in time, when the right person comes, you’ll slip into it like a second skin.
If you are single and perfectly happy with it, don’t let anyone tell you that’s wrong! You are lucky to have the freedom and space to travel, to pursue your career or something that interests you, or just to enjoy time to yourself and with your family and friends. Being part of a couple or poly group has nothing to do with someone’s value to society; you are more than enough just as you are, and you have the right to pursue a full and happy life without anyone pressuring you to be or feel something differently.
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